Of course, compared to any other site, this one would shine as supportive! But relative to THIS site, it's a mixed bag. Which means, imo, that at other sites there is very little REAL support going on! Other sites don't matter to me much. This one does, and for that to continue, imo, we each need to step back once in a while and look at ourselves, and observe ourselves as others might. Then we'll stay a good, safe, supportive, site!