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Old Oct 12, 2005, 06:29 PM
wisewoman wisewoman is offline
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Caroline, I wonder if you could practice not being so hypervigilant by NOT reading the posts you know will upset you. Doing that may spread out into the rest of the world so you can feel like you don't need to be hypervigilent. It happens to me too, not the fear of not reading posts but the fear and confusion when I see people acting nasty toward eachother.