Lady, you're under a lot of stress. I'm not up to date with what's going on with your family and why they're not going to your wedding but I can totally understand how that must be eating at your emotions. Plus, planning a wedding in itself can be extremely nerve wracking.
((((((((Lady)))))))))))
I'm sorry you're in pain too on top of that. Boy, you're having a pretty tough time right now. Forgive yourself if you get a little short tempered and don't smile as much as you normally would.
Maybe confiding in one of your friends instead of trying to veil your pain would help make you feel better. I'm sure they'd love to be there for you during this tough time.
I really hope your back feels better soon and you find peace with your family not going. I'm so sorry about that. You need more hugs!!
((((((((((((Lady))))))))))))))