SeptemberMorn I agree and know the definition of both.... BUT let us look at my whole statement and where I placed it...I am speaking of emotional support on a psych site...... I did mention looking for a question mark...I really think and this is MY OPINION that if we all look for what the POSTER is ASKING for better we will be better able to be supportive in the way they NEED it....My T and I am guessing MOST do not give advice but they do offfer support....That is what I meant but yes one can make a case for how it can bleed over....thats not my point though maybe it is yours...

For myself I would rather when I post that people look for what I am really asking for. Once I was very misunderstood and it seemed like I was not taking the ADVICE but in fact if people had read my post well they would have seen I just wanted and NEEDED support....emotional support..Its not to say I do not or did not appreciate the help and fact eople cared but I needed something else

Its just a thought