My bf and I have been together for a year now and I love him. I don't want to state my reason why but I feel I am obligated to stay wit him. If it wasn't for that reason then I would have already ended our relationship. I'm not happy with the relationship because I'm now realizing how stressful things will be like when he finally gets his 4 children back. They are from the ages of 8 and 2. I'm only 28yrs old and already I have to think about caring for 4 children and budgeting to ensure we have enough food for the kids too blah blah. When I dated him it was only us but now we're going through the legal stuff to get share custody for the kids. When I think about his kids I think about how my fun personal life is over. It just doesn't seem like it'll be fun and exciting anymore. I'm young and I don't want to put my life on hold and have to share it with his children. I'm not ready to care for kids.