That is always a fine line of how long before you give a nudge. Of course there is no one answer. I think those involved in the situation need to determine that. Whether it is a therapist, a friend or a family member. I guess maybe it would be when the tide turns from " good ole' geez I feel like crap and need a shoulder to cry on" to when the behavior turns destructive for the person or the supporters.

This is my opinion. Maybe others have better ideas.

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