It's something I just learned about too. My husband has confrontation issues so badly to the point that well, he just leaves. He's just never left me before.

In a way this is good because the police are now involved and my court order is state wide so where I find him, I just call the sheriff to come get him and this proves his instability. The down side is if he get afraid enough and starts contemplating suicide and does it, I've lost him for good.

This is a drastic measure but at this point I truly am willing to do whatever it takes to save his life even if does resent me in the end and I cannot save our marriage, at least I will have gotten him the treatment he needs and God willing it helps this time.