Gr3tta

I couldn't agree with you more!
it is a catch 22 here though-- as far as I can see..... damned if you do make it legal and damned if you don't....
so I think some of us are just trying to go the route of least harm....
it's all harmful(IMO)....
it saddens me to think some people want to treat others like animals ---with no emotional connection, no regard for the other's emotional well being...... just use them for their own benefit....
it is sick....
but it is here and has been here for a long long time....
so what is one to do?....
keeping it illegal hasn't helped any either, has it?.....

I truly wish it would all have NEVER ever existed..... that all humans were respected emotionally and treated with empathy and understanding...
but....
sadly it does exist ......

fins