Hello, dre09. He resents you for making him a father? He does not acknowledge he had a role in this?

What are your choices? You cannot make the relationship work by yourself. He does not want to be a father. I doubt there will be a custody battle. Is his name on the child's birth certificate?

My thought is for you to get a lawyer and get paternity, custody, visitation and support established. Perhaps in time he will get over the anger and be the parent he needs to be for the child's sake.

May the child ultimately be the winner here. Good luck.