the hour is at hand. I changed the deadbolt. Threw all his stuff in bags and are outside. He did not have a key, but he could have made me one without me knowhng it. I just took my daily dose of klonopin. I am terrified but I think that is in my own mind. Going for my walk now that he is gone. Hopefully I will be much calmer whem the meds kick in. Wish me luck!