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Jul 10, 2010, 11:33 PM
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Member Since: Jul 2010
Location: California
Posts: 8
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Originally Posted by TheByzantine
Hello, dre09. He resents you for making him a father? He does not acknowledge he had a role in this?
What are your choices? You cannot make the relationship work by yourself. He does not want to be a father. I doubt there will be a custody battle. Is his name on the child's birth certificate?
My thought is for you to get a lawyer and get paternity, custody, visitation and support established. Perhaps in time he will get over the anger and be the parent he needs to be for the child's sake.
May the child ultimately be the winner here. Good luck.
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His name is on the birth certificate. Since we were not married before the baby was born he had to sign a form stating that he acknowledges that he is the father and does not question the paternity. I've already taken steps in contacting a lawyer to get advice. I know there will be a custody battle because he will fight for our daughter out of spite. I guess I keep holding on to the hope that my daughter won't have to grow up in a broken home, but i think it's already breaking.
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