(((((((((((((((((jen))))))))))))))))))

that's the thing about when a family member molests...the confusion and confliting feelings/thoughts...especially when it's a parent. whatever you do, don't beat yourself up over them. you right a right to both. you truly do.

i can say that i truly hate the older brother. however, we don't talk and he's a horrible person even as an adult...my mother and father, i love and hate/love.

i want to say that i'm so very sorry that this happened to you. children should not be hurt! your feelings are your...right or wrong. that's what will be dealt with in t.

as to it coming out now, i would say your mind felt it was safe enough to let the walls come down that were holding them for you...protecting you. it's time because your mind knows you're safe now and have been for quite some time. but mostly, your mind knows you can handle it.

we're all here for you. we'll hear what you have to say.

again, jen, i'm so sorry.

kd