belle, if you'd been dating this guy a year or two and were saying you had trouble trusting him and opening up i think it would be cause for concern but i don't see this being a problem at this point. he's only been in your life a very short amount of time and trust isn't really something that can be rushed. it takes much time and experience with another to develop real trust. would you really want to know all his deep, dark secrets at this stage? lol, i sure wouldn't! generally, when it comes to trusting men i personally have found their actions to be much more reliable than their words to get a feel for what they are really about. it's okay to just relax and enjoy dating him and let things happen at a natural pace.