Poseygurl,
Yes, his leaving was the best thing to happen to you, a man like that no women needs, I can relate to it some what, it is amazing how when a partner is suffering from depression, etc. (which they probably contributed to) can't take the pressure and seek out somone to have an affair with, that is such a damn joke! Here, the other partner is torotured with depression, not of their want, and then, wham another thing to set your world off!! Posey, you don't need people that in your life and what you wrote here, sounds that you have come a long way

You are quite an inspiration there lady

"darkeyes"