Okay, I think I understand. Are you saying you would rather help other people than do the basic work, like cleaning, that it takes to take care of your own physical comfort?

I'd much rather do that too - housework is a drag, isn't it? But you need to find a balance. There are lots of ways to give and cleaning is one of them. If it doesn't get done, it makes it harder to do the kind of giving you would like to do. Same goes for homework - if you neglect it, it limits what you have to give. You need to meet your needs first, or you will run out and won't have anything to give.

<font color=green>"Loneliness does not come from having no people about one, but from being unable to communicate the things that seem important to oneself, or from holding certain views which others find inadmissible" Carl Jung</font color=green>