As I was thinking about the on-line dating situation, a thought came to mind. I've never tried the biggies that are advertised on TV mostly because of the cost. However, they are also the most likely to do a personality profile to make suggestions to you. Before the on-line thing I tried a dating service that matched after an interview with you - that didn't work well for me.

The website I met my husband on was a more focused site - for big and beautiful women like myself. They didn't do the matching for me, but the guys on there already had an idea of what I see as my worst feature. The guys I met on that site either didn't mind - or actully liked - meeting large women.

What I'm trying to say is that if you can find a dating site specifially for some aspect of your life - I've seen them for different religious affiliations, ethnic backgrounds, etc. Yes, there are jerks and preditors on there as well. Some guys I met on my site were looking for desperite women with low self-esteem who are willing to give personal information to anyone who pays attention to them. I also found my husband there. He was there because he prefers larger women and said he really fell in love with me the first time he heard my voice on the phone.