I just realized I don't think I could do online dating because I'd be trying to second-guess myself too much; I was going to suggest that you give some "almost" guys a try, maybe even one or two "no" and see how your selection criteria works? But then I thought of what I would put on a site and how that would differ from how I appear in person. That's what the "almost" would be about for me; some guy might think it would be more attractive to a woman to accent one thing and not mention another, etc. and, you, might think the opposite if you met the person in person :-)

I think online dating must indeed be very much like interviewing someone for a job (rather than the other way around, your interviewing a company to get a job) and I'd be afraid I wouldn't know enough from their resumes, would have to write an "outdoor" guy or two, even though I love to read most. I use to read 3-5 books a week and just got another degree and love academic research but I also seem to own an RV and a boat. . . Don't ask me to go on hikes though!

I guess I would try to have fun with the process, in my own way.