If I remember correctly, aren't you originally from another country? Think culture has anything to do with not finding a match? I know you mention here frequently that you want a kid and hear tick..tick..tick. I can tell you with 99% accuracy that the vast majority of guys pick up on that when they just are starting to get to know you, its a red flag. Its good that your honest up front that you want a kid, but there simply isn't a shortage of woman who want kids and feel the clock ticking.