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Wow, granite, the tactic that she is choosing doesn't sound helpful. You deserve patience and the chance to feel safe with her. Her tactic of pushing you is not allowing you to feel safe it seems? Can you tell her that her pushing you is not allowing you to feel safe (if this is the case)? She needs to understand how she is affecting you and the only way that she is going to understand this is for you to tell her.
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Don't let your problems or the world make you feel small. Stretch your arms out over your head. Take a deep breathe. Tell yourself that you are big. You are big, not small. You always have space, you are not trapped........
I'm an ISFJ
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