KimmyDawn,
I can bet all of this decision making you are trying to go through is draining. And, you are just coming out of a deepness that should you move to quickly could wind you right back up into the much and mire.
All I can offer you is that I will be keeping peaceful thoughts headed your way.
Maybe there is someone who could go to KY for you and look @ the marker? Maybe you could go with your best friend?
I don't know what would be best...I just know I want you to take care of you!
(((KD)))