granite, sounds a bit harsh and untheraputic, like your being rejected unless you do it T's way, when therapy is about us. I fortunately have a T that works f2f and also works with emails and we've got further f2f because of the emails at times. You can tell her you would like to work this way first? If she still refuses you have the right to find a T that is more flexiBle? We all need different approaches and a good T will Work with you.