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Originally Posted by Sannah
Wow, granite, the tactic that she is choosing doesn't sound helpful. You deserve patience and the chance to feel safe with her. Her tactic of pushing you is not allowing you to feel safe it seems? Can you tell her that her pushing you is not allowing you to feel safe (if this is the case)? She needs to understand how she is affecting you and the only way that she is going to understand this is for you to tell her.
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sannah i am so scared and confused by her after she seemed to get so frustrated with me she just seemed so careing telling me she really wants to see me get better.i'm terrified at how hard she is pushing me and i have no idea how things are going to work out you are right that i need to somehow find a way to let her know because maybe she doesnt.when she asked me to come up with one word i said scared.she said she knows this and she really wants me to see that nothing is going to happen that it is ok if we talk about things.she said some other stuff about our relationship but i really couldnt understand it much.i go back and forth with telling myself she has done nothing to hurt me but try to get me to give her words.and make me feel things right.she is a very strong person she got frustrated as i spoke about the mother but made me feel better about scared.i need to know she wont crush me with my words and feelings.and if this happens does she know what to do?