(((((BlackCanary)))))

I feel so awful for you. He sounds like a jerk! Yet I know about obsessions. At least you know that you can't see him. How are you feeling about him right now? Maybe that teenage part can decide he's not worth it. However, I wouldn't write him off as "the wrong T for me". You did say that you accomplished some things with him that you discussed at your final session. It's not a black and white situation. There's something to be learned from each T, even if it's just knowing what you need from a different T.

I know you said that you aren't/can't talk to your new T about him and your therapy, but I really, really think that you need to. Have you seen her yet? Do you think she will be "the right T for you"?