I agree with Kimmydawn. Its not bad that you are THINKING about another man.. we all have fantasies - its what we do with them that matters. Its kinda like guys going to a strip club - as long as they look and don't touch nothing wrong - especially if they come home and their wife, gf, or partner gets the benefits of his fantasy being stimulated.. Its ok to think of the other guy but just be sure not to call his name out during an intimate moment with the hubby.