wow

Well - 1st of all - I cannot tell you how PROUD I am of you for ASKING for what you needed - for making a stand for YOU and for your healing.

2nd - I don't know his side of things - but that comment about life shows that I think you are FAR better off without him as your T. Y

UCK! He sounds like a SMUCK!

3rd - Don't stop fighting for yourself or your healing. You have every right to feel anything you feel. You don't act out on those feelings in a way that would harm anyoneo. It does a number on a person to be emotionally nude infront of a T. And transference is expected.

Allow yourself to grieve THROUGH this.
Realize that T's make some frikin HUGE mistakes!!!
Now you know what kind of a person he is on the inside - that is going to sting. But use it to empower your heart and learn from it.

VERY BIG HUGS to you dearest one!

and ps - if any therapists are reading this thread, I hope you pay close attention to the emotions this dear lady is having. These things need to be done in the RIGHT way!!! Serious damage can be done by a T when this type of thing happens.