I know the desire to make the marriage work.....as that is an important commitment but there are many things that are a cause for divorce. One of those things is adultary.....which even though not active, porn is a form of that even though inactive & not with a specific person.

I am glad you got out of there with your daughter. I think that was a very wise & brave thing that you did & definitely the right thing to do. The damage that your daughter could possibly go through if he chose to act on his fantasies, is beyond being even remotely acceptable.

I am sure that family pressure to stay & work things out is strong. I think that churches are becoming more & more aware of the social issues that are going on & are starting to take the right stand that is not always against the wife, trying to make her feel like staying is the only right thing. Porn is one thing.....but child pron goes so far beyond that.

Hope your counselor will give you some good sound advice or at least help you walk through your thoughts in a way that you will be able to do what is right for your daughter.