Hello JNL,

This is way complicated. I think you need to deal with one thing at a time. Only you can choose which one, but I would go back to the first relationship and start there.

I don't think a person being in a relationship means that they can't cheat on you, lets face it you are already inciting them to cheat so I think it is more of a power and control issue. If you can get them to leave their partner for you then you prove to yourself that you are worthy, whether they are male or female. And if you are bisexual that will never change, whether you are married or not.

I'll have a think on this and I'll repost later,

Cheers,

Rhiannon