Hello Eriksplus,

It's very unfair when people who do not understand relationships that are innocent; mothers though have this propensity to worry about their daughters and 16 is very young (though I don't know what age you are Eriksplus).

Does she know that you are DID? We know that people with DID are not dangerous, but people out there who deliberately stay away from people with mental illness have this almost siege mentality when it comes to protecting themselves from us "loonies" loll. Poor things they are, are just not prepared for people with a broken brain or broken emotions...if it were a broken leg they'd have no trouble handle it...

Give it a couple of days the lass may contact you but if not just send her a message that you understand; if there is a forum where you connect just use that to communicate. Hope you settle soon,

Rhiannon