I've found in my own journey that as you work on one thing, so something else becomes apparent. Anxiety could be masking something else, I understand there is a great fear in putting ourselves under a microscope, and unless one is fully co,mited to that then it makes working with someone difficult and they would be wasting your time if the time isnt ready for that person yet. Therapy is much like tring to herd cats. Perhaps feeling that its the therapist that are unwilling to work with you on this one thing you are only willing to work on is a defence? are you willing to go anywhere in thErapy? If no then perhaps you'd get more Help from self help books where you can pick what you want to read and work on? Its ok to not want to open old wounds also, it all dependS on whether our day to day life is the best it can be for us?If its not then we do ourselves a mis service by not trying to make it so and doning whatever that takes? Its not easy, but I found my day to day life was harder not Being willing to look at all possible reasons for tHat. Good luck.