AWESOME POST GG....One of the most thought provoking..I hope everyone reads it more than once...I will come back to this

Ozzie another great point...
Rapunzel another good post
Sky yes so well said I statements are the best and we should all try to do that more..

Mj another great post

I haven't seen any posts in here that aren't good as well and well thought out

Thing is most of the indepth posts if you look at them all point to KNOWING where that person is .....what their background is...where they are on on the road....and pointing out we are NOT the T in group threapy...we are not a trained T hired by that client....we can do our best but also try to do our best to not be so presumptuous as to tell someone to stop wallowing...Who are WE to know where they are AT and where they have COME from to say such a thing..I could and would never do that to someone....

So many good points now...what are we going to do with them??????????? For me I am going to try to watch my I statements ....and try not to push someone who may need to take 5 times as long to get something as I did......OR just support someone who may WANT or NEED something I don't...and maybe more