In the caregivers area there is a thread with a quote by Søren Kierkegaard.....I will not quote it all cause you can go down there but to me its wraps right back to GGs wonderfully thoughtful post




"When it shall really be possible to lead a person to a specific place, one first of all has to be careful to find where he is and start from there.

This is the secret of the art of helping. Anyone who is not able to do so is simply seducing himself into believing that he is able to help others.

To really help another person I must understand more than him but first of all understand what he understands. " end of part of quote