This must be so awful for you Lisa, and for him too feeling hunted will bring out paranoia and anger.
I've been wondering how to answer this within the boundaries of which I know I must keep. It would have been best not to create a confrontation at his work place because it just made him run.
I know you want the best for him, he wants the best for him too, and what is best for him may not be what you think is best for him though you are acting outof love.
I really feel for both of you and I wonder where this will end up.I just hope for the best possible outcome for you both; as Bloom has pointed out he is afraid of confrontation; he may be exhibiting anger because he feels pursued?
Just know that you have support through this and if possible ask for help from Doc John before you make your next move. This has ballooned out into something that was not foreseen so giving advice in this instance is a lot more complicated than just support,
Rhiannon