BBTZ, thanks for the update. I've been thinking of you and how everything turned out. So glad you decided to go to your sis-in-law's party, some positive reinforcement here. Don't feel bad about not totally enjoying your reception. I would have felt the same way, always hated the spotlight. Putting on a performance is strenous and tiring. We had 13 at our wedding dinner, perfect for me, enjoyable no stress no strain. Now you can relax and enjoy being a newlywed.