Yes, thanks for the update BBT7; I was worse than you for my wedding I just told my mother there would be no dancing! I was the bride and it's the only thing I got any say about so she hired a piano player and we all had a buffet dinner but no dancing. I was so stressed the whole day I didn't eat anything or sit down, just wandered around in a daze. When the maid of honor went to take my flowers at the altar, we got into a tug-of-war with them, I was so out of it, LOL.

I'm glad you went to SIL's party, I think it will help in the future when you have other activities you are anxious about.