I am sorry this happened to you both....first of all is it a police dept or sherriff's dept? if I were a chief or the sherriff and I had an officer behave that way I would at least write him up or put him on suspension. I say take it to his boss. You may never know what actions if any they take on this but public officers are not suppose to behave that way. if you see nothing is being done take it to the mayor. neither dept would want bad publicity about it