Hi Everyone,
This is my first thread in this forum. I haven been with this man for 20 yrs. been married 13 this halloween. The first 7 yrs. were very rocky because he was a drinker, and could and would become nasty and violent. Of course it caused a lot of problems and break ups. But once I put my foot down and left on my own accord, he realized the this was it.

So we reconciled with the promise that he would quit drinking, and no more promises to marry me. We would get married!! So we got married that halloween. Halloween, this way he could never forget it.

So lately our life has been same old same old, boring but stressful. The past week he has started drinking when he gets home from work. He sits in his reclyner watching TV, barely says a word, has 3-4 12 oz glasses of tomatoe juice and V..... then goes to bed.

This really has me concerned, because I'm not going to go threw this again. Walking on eggshells already, because I know if I say anything
I could be asking for trouble. I just don;t know what to do. Any advise?