bruinelle,

That is a sad situation to be in, but I can understand the advice you have been given; living away from Korea has caused major emotional and mental trauma for your husband and since he returned there his improvment proves that to be the case. However you can't by your own statement live in Korea for whatever reason, and he can't live out of Korea.

Divorce really is the only option if this is true. Sometimes loving someone means letting them go; I really wish you well in this very difficult situation,

Rhiannon