Perna, with a skillful T what client wouldnt want that? A skillful therapist fits into the client. I'm not sure where your coming from with this, I'm not really understanding what your saying, I think your injecting your thinking into my experience and thats why its becoming missmash, you seem to be trying to force your take on my experience, wanting to correct where I am coming from, when I have made it clear already. I wonder what my post is bringing up for you?