Hi sj,
By coincidence I have just posted a similar thread in relationships.
I guess we just keep sucking on a stone when we feel this stuff, and it never changes, because the people who hurt us never change. IMHO we have to stop wanting the impossible and start taking note of those people who can actually see us.
Maybe it's like working for a bad boss, you can give all you like but you won't be appreciated by a bad boss. The sensible thing is to go find a good boss to work for!
You have my empathy, M
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