I just wanted to add this, I am aware of my situation, But I need time to prepare. Getting out is easy to say but very difficult to do when you have no where to go. I need to first get an lawyer to help me seperate finacial accounts. I the past nothing was in my name, not even my car. But this time everything is either in my name or is jointly owned. So I am not about to just walk away this time. Although I am scarred, I am no longer that timid little creature I was 20 yrs ago. I will not go down with out a fight. But I am also a lot smarter, and I am capable to get out of this without coffrentation. I hope! I am not very good at lying, but if need be I can do what ever I need to, to protect myself.
I am in the process of setting up a support system of doctors, lawyer, and shelter if need be. Fear can be a good motivator, hmmm. I am calling the national hotline to set up all of this. The first step, have already called to set up therapy. So don't worry about me I will not be a victem anymore!!!! I CAN DO THIS.
Luv you guys,