I have a recorded voice mail of him threatening her and I'm not sure what to do now, or if there's anything I can do. He said "I'm gonna have to hurt you...you won't know how or when but it's gonna be bad." There were also a couple of insulting remarks I won't add.

I figure going to the police would be a waste of time since (a) she's not willing to go through the motions to get a restraining order and (b) it's not like they're gonna put protective detail on her.

I thought about attaching the recording to an email to him with the subject line "insurance" and saying solely something to the effect of "you shouldn't go around threatening women." Doing something like that might trigger his wrath even more though.

Feeling helpless...


Winston