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Jul 16, 2010, 02:38 PM
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Member Since: Oct 2009
Location: getting use to my own skin again
Posts: 1,797
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((((DPS))))
What is love ? That is something that we are trying to find again ourselves. When we are with people that we feel safe with. What we look for now are the fallowing things:
1. acceptance that even if we can not prove the past, that they accept us and rock us as the pain of past and present abuse is dealt with.
2. that we are not heald accountable for the abuse done to us by outsiders.
3. that we are still human beings deserving the right to be loved.
4. love is the ability to look another in the eyes still seeing all of our warts and pain and still saying come here you need a hug.
5. the ability of a person to let us greive, be mad, cry like heck and not tell us get over it. it happened when let it go.
6. most of all to allow us to heal at our own pases.
Unconditional LOVE is the ability to say I love you and mean it. Knowing that darkness sit on our heart but still allowing us to find moments of joy, free of pain when someone can just sit with you to enjoy the sun.
we be here for you echoes of DPS. We hope that you and all within feel our unconditional love and acceptance.
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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