I know how you feel. Every time my boyfriend and I fight, I have Bipolar Disorder Mixed, he tells me to go back to Iowa. I think he says things like that to hurt my feelings, because I'm hurting his. Then we both calm down and see things in a new light.

I just got out of a ten day stint in the hospital. I wanted to run home to Iowa, but realized I'm 31 and my place is here. Tell your bf to think positive, of all the good times you've had. Maybe u 2 need to seek therapy together to determine his triggers and why he wants to run.

He may also need Inpatient treatment with daily therapy at a hospital to realize he doesn't want to go. That's what worked for me. I wish you all the luck in the world.