I pray that she will see how much you love her...I pray that she will be healthy enough to give you that love back. Take care of yourself and know that she is blessed to have you for her husband. I'm sorry that I have no answers or advice, but I am so blown away by your devotion. That is uncommon in this screwed up world. Blessings and good thoughts for you both. Wishing you and your wife a very, very happy ending.