The last serious relationship I had, the lady had a "type" of woman she liked. They were all appearance related. I fit the mold but she obviously filled in the blanks on the important stuff. She would get surprised when I did not meet her fill in the blanks. She did not really know me. I was diagnosed as bipolar while we dated. I also decided to file for disability...she flew off the handle on that one and broke up with me because she wanted her partner to be her equal and if I was on disability I could not, according to her be an equal while on disability. I have decided to make friends first and date later.