So you feel that you did something wrong because everyone here is not agreeing with you? When you grow up in a dysfunctional family you learn dysfunctional things. Getting better requires unconvering these dysfunctional beliefs, examining them and coming to something more functional. Because you have dyfunctional beliefs doesn't mean that you have done anything wrong. It is totally normal to come out of a dysfunctional family with dysfunctional beliefs. I had a whole sack full of them. I did not choose them. I was a child and I learned from my environment. A person can only move on from where they are. Accept where you are so that you can work to move forward Googley.

You must have open communication with your T if you want to move forward. A lack of open communication makes things so icky. This is how we get isolated and let our minds run off. It is not good. This is a pattern from our dysfunctional families. Dysfunctional family members are isolated from one another. This becomes the norm. To be healthy, communication is the norm, not isolation.