So my husband has abnsolutely NO sex drive. He has no inclination to have sex, and assumes he could live without it if necessary. When we do make love, its fabulous for both parties. He always ends with, My god why don't we do that more often? That's amazing!" but end up in the same no sex drive rut.

He's had his thyroid and testestrone levels tested - normal.

We just started therapy together, and I've learned he sees all women as sexual objects. The first things he notices about women involve sexual thoughts....until he gets to know her and sees her as a person (like our friends).
We have sex more often then he masterbates (sex 1-2 week usually...because I initiate, and masterbation maybe once every 2 weeks or so) Yet NO sex drive. What the heck is going on? how is that possible?