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It would make sense for us to have a real time line like AKA normal people. But the simple fact that we are splintered souls means that the only way that we could have survived what we did was to devide the trauma into parts means that our whole life is devided into groups. Its made even harder for us to know for sure the reality of our lives.
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We finely accept that we have two types of memiors. One is spiritual memoirs these are the memoirs that alters have that do not coincide with our physcal life with those around us. Physcal memoirs are those that at times we can find someone in the real world that is able to confirm it.
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We also are dealing with alters that have their own life. When we were reintergrated in the past it was with the help of those around us learning that it was safe to share our memoirs. But we have a group of people that clame that we do things but are not willing or able to prove their clames. Or at least admite to the public that what happen was forced abuse.
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So give those with in some space and understand that we are this way because it was the only way to survive what happened to us as child and maybe even into aduilt hood.
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The biggest gift that we can give to our selfs is to accept and understand we do not have to prove our selves for the simple fact is that we lived it. Sending safe hugs and thought from all of us to all of you!
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Sometimes the only way to find freedom is to fight for it, even unto death! Because no form of abuse transcends pass it! To live free and with hope is still the greatest gift of life!- anderson .gif "Boy Angel")
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