Cores husband today,without consulting anyone of us,contacted her grandparents who are cores primary CSA and up until today had been completely cut out of our lives for over 2 years. their car is about to die and he felt he had no other options but now all of us are desperate and despondent,terrified and shaking. we just saw him a few minutes ago and we arent doing well at all. we feel so invalidated and invisible we cannot handle having contact with them anymore and now his little son will be allowed to see them as well. we want to leave so badly