Dear Friends,

I would just like to ask you all something, if its OK...Tony and I have been together 16 years abd raised 3 children. I have never been comfotable with the sex and he has always known this. I was molested by my brother and raped by my priest and of course this effects to this day. I dont like forplay of anykind. I just want him to do what he has to do and be done with it and then take a long bath. as off now it only happens maybe once in 3 months maybe 4...until he starts giving hints to me about it then I know I better get it over with. This is a bad attitude I have...right? but Tony seems to be OK with what have now and yes in the begining, years ago it was more often but over the years it gotten much less, thats normal isnt it?? Well please let me know what you all think...Im open to all answers and comments...thank you

Sincerely

Roxy